Being needy and clingy partner is one of the surest ways to slowly push your partner away and destroy your relationship. At times, you did not notice yourself that you are becoming too needy than usual, though sometimes it is normal yet some women overly do it without totally noticing themselves. The common cause of this is your partner does not make you feel secure in the relationship. However, whether this was because of your boyfriend or your loved ones stemmed you to do so and feel so, it is much better to stop it as soon as you can. Here are the simplest ways you can keep yourself from being too needy and clingy.
Analyze your past. Your past does not have something to do in your present love life. If you are betrayed or cheated before by your ex boyfriend, this does not mean that your present one will also do it to you. All individuals are unique, how your ex treated you before will not be the same way your present boyfriend treats you. This only means that not all guys will act like that. At often times, your fear of suffering again the pain you had before causes you to become needier on your present, which must not be the case. If you still feel the fear of giving your trust then you must not take the great feelings you feel to him on an instant.
Balance your time with your partner, friends, and family. Make it a point that you will not spend all your time with your partner. Enjoy the company of your friends and family instead of always putting your partner first. The more time you will spend together, the more chance you become too needy and clingy to him.
Do not always depend on him. There are some instances that you always want your boyfriend at your side whatever you will do. Asking him to do all your favors even if he does not want like asking him to go shopping with you or watch a movie he hates will slowly pushes him away. Asking him occasionally is fine but if you frequently ask him to be with you just because you want to, is a different story. Yes, you wanted to feel the sense of security with him but overly doing it is not a good idea at any sense. You must also create a sense of dependency.
Trust your partner. Being too needy is usually associated with lack of trust and at times fear of abandonment. When you find yourself having some trouble trusting others, then you must analyze yourself why you doubt his feelings for you. Do not let your past hinder the chance of knowing deeply your present partner. Do not judge him because of the actions of other persons to you before, it is unfair. If you really care for this person and knows that there is something in him that makes you fall to him then he deserves your trust. Do not afraid to love and trust someone once again. After all, loving someone really takes some risk to keep the bond alive and stronger.
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