Is this happening to you? You are good friends, you hang out together all the time, and slowly you realize that you are falling in love with her? It happens all the time. Together with the pleasant feelings towards her, you are also afraid that what you feel for her will ruin your friendship. You may be confused sometimes if you will just conceal what you feel or take courage to tell it to her. Falling in love with someone is never planned, it just happens for no apparent reason and in unexpected time and person. Taking steps to get your friendship to the next level takes high risk and courage, however here are some tips you can consider on what to do if you fall in love with your friend.
Before taking any steps you must figure out your feelings for her, ask yourself if what you feel for your friend is true love, just physical attraction, or just because of an emotional disturbance in your life? At times because you spend more time together you misinterpreted your feelings for her when you feel more attached to them all of a sudden, or you feel jealous if she is seeing someone else. Know what the root cause of your feelings toward her. Be sure to know what you truly feel because you do not want to make things out of the way if that is just an infatuation.
If you are sure about your feelings, then the next thing you must do is to observe if she feels the same way. Remember she might just look at you as a brother-figure and she may feel awkward and shocked on what you feel toward her. It may ruin everything but on the brighter side it could also make things better. Weigh the risk against the chances. You must be careful to your attack, do not come out too sudden or open. In everything you will say, there is always a gentle way to express it.
Always be there for her if she needs you. It is essential to make her feel not alone in times of ups and downs, there is a shoulder she can cry on, and willing to make her feel comfortable. For all the things you did for her, in time she will surely noticed how great you are. Make her think that you are a boyfriend material and let her start to think the idea you have always wanted.
Falling in love with a friend is one of the risky things to do. You may never know what her response to your feelings, if she will agree to it or reject it. If your friend does only see you as a friend and no more than that, then you must accept her decision. Do not push her to do or feel the same way if she does not, it will only destroy the friendship you once build together. On the other hand, she may think you are just joking or she may freak out. Give her time to make up her mind and respect her decision whatever it is. It will take time to get the affirmation that she has the same feelings towards you, just wait.
If things fall into what you desire, you must appreciate and treasure your relationship. Show her how much you love her, never make her regret anything, and be her everything. Never lose the chance she trusted to give and others would die for. When everything seems old and gray, your friendship will hold you close and keep the relationship alive.
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